By Dan Blair, marriage therapist and family counselor It may take two to resolve conflict, but all each person can do, is control themselves instead of trying to change or control the other [...]
Here are some questions to consider for counseling: What are your best hopes for this process? What are your fears about this? What will be required of yourself? How motivated are you to make [...]
Photo by Thao Le Hoang on Unsplash I admire a friend of mine who is a fourth degree black belt. I noticed the rest of us would get upset at conflict so much easier than he would. I realized [...]
Jesus was fully immersed in the identity, experiences and perspective of both God and man as mediator between the two. So for mediation to be successful, each has to identify with the experience [...]
Copyright © Dan Blair 2020. Communication is harder than many people think. Since the strength of a relationship is based on connection between people, communication is often underestimated as [...]
Copyright © Dan Blair 2020. One of the most useful tools for communication is the adage “agree to disagree.” Many do not find it okay to disagree so they resort to arguments. By [...]
By Dan Blair, a marriage counselor and family counselor. At times people think about how problems would be solved if they were married to someone else. Some problems may be solved this way, but [...]
By Dan Blair, a marriage counselor and family counselor. What are some criteria for effective listening in the Bible? Some seek to correct more than connect when “listening” and find [...]
By Dan Blair, a marriage counselor and family counselor. While doing right leads to healthy relationships, the Bible also promotes the opposite: healthy relationships lead to doing right. Healthy [...]
