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By Dan Blair, marriage counselor and family counselor I look back over my life and I think we can all say we have made major mistakes. We have weaknesses and flaws. I think about the major [...]

By Dan Blair, marriage therapist and family counselor It may take two to resolve conflict, but all each person can do, is control themselves instead of trying to change or control the other [...]

By Dan Blair, a marriage counselor and family counselor. Darling, you gotta let me know Should I stay or should I go? If you say that you are mine I’ll be there till the end of time So you [...]

By Dan Blair, a marriage counselor and family counselor. As a marriage and family therapist I have learned techniques to help marriages and family relationships work. The one that works best by [...]

By Dan Blair, a marriage counselor and family counselor. At times people think about how problems would be solved if they were married to someone else. Some problems may be solved this way, but [...]

By Dan Blair, marriage counselor and family counselor Communication is harder than many people think. Since the strength of a relationship is based on connection between people, communication is [...]

One of the most useful tools for communication is the adage “agree to disagree.” Many do not find it okay to disagree so they resort to arguments. By contrast, if you can agree to [...]

By Dan Blair, a marriage counselor and family counselor. As a marriage and family therapist I have learned techniques to help marriages and family relationships work. The one that works best by [...]

By Dan Blair, a marriage counselor and family counselor. What are some criteria for effective listening in the Bible? Some seek to correct more than connect when “listening” and find [...]

By Dan Blair, a marriage counselor and family counselor. Many choose to forgive because forgiveness has benefits for the forgiver. Forgiveness is a canceling of a “debt”. One can [...]