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August 10, 2026 Tips from Hostage Negotiaters Is there anything we can learn from hostage negotiators that applies to conflict resolution in relationships? While eac… June 17, 2026 Inner Conflict: Working with Parts of Self While we can start by identifying what we feel and need, sometimes is it more complicated than that. We can all identify with a part of me want this,… April 23, 2026 Beyond the “I’m Fine”: Practical Steps to Mental Health We can all identify with stress. You can see how stress can not only leads to anger, which is a common emoti… March 26, 2026 Biblical Tools for Mental Health No one is immune to stress, anxiety, or burnout. "Popping the hood" of the mind may reveal what tools are ne… March 16, 2026 Does Joy and Suffering Go Together in the Bible? Joy is described in the Bible as both a gift and a choice. Fullness of joy, and in fact, pleasures forevermo… November 25, 2025 ‘Til Death (or Divorce) Do Us Part: How Do Christians View the Breaking of a Vow All can agree that marriage was meant to be loving. We may differ when it comes to the breaking of a vow and what to do… September 25, 2025 Effective Listening What are some criteria for effective listening in the Bible? Some seek to correct the other per… September 24, 2025 Connection Before Correction While doing right leads to healthy relationships, the Bible also promotes the opposite: healthy… September 23, 2025 Forgiving Versus Reconciling Many choose to forgive because forgiveness has benefits for the forgiver. Forgiveness is a canc… April 10, 2025 Let Them Theory The book called let them theory has sold 1.2 million copies in its first month alone. It's a popular book by Mel Robbins. It's purported to give peop… March 13, 2025 What To Expect From Your First Therapy Appointment Starting therapy for the first time can be frightening if you don’t know what to expect. Will your health insurance cover therapy? W… March 5, 2025 What is Therapy? What Should You Expect? Have you ever been to therapy? If not, it can be daunting. The first time I went to therapy, it felt…

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