By Dan Blair, a marriage counselor and family counselor. Much of the time one parent does not realize what they are doing. The effect on the kids is unnoticed. It is usually experienced by the [...]

By Dan Blair, a marriage counselor and family counselor. While various human beliefs and interpretations of Christianity have played a part in creating havoc in personal and political realms, [...]

By Dan Blair, a marriage counselor and family counselor. Many choose to forgive because forgiveness has benefits for the forgiver. Forgiveness is a canceling of a “debt”. One can [...]

By Dan Blair, a marriage counselor and family counselor. While doing right leads to healthy relationships, the Bible also promotes the opposite: healthy relationships lead to doing right. Healthy [...]

By Dan Blair, a marriage counselor and family counselor. Telling the kids is often described as the toughest part of a divorce. The kid’s dream of a “normal” life with mom and [...]

By Dan Blair, a marriage counselor and family counselor. Churches proclaim divorce to be a sin with certain exceptions. These exceptions depend on which church you attend. Some believe divorce is [...]

By Dan Blair, a marriage counselor and family counselor. When you have been wronged it can be hard to consider mercy, but when you are the one who has done wrong, mercy can be what saves you. [...]

By Dan Blair, a marriage counselor and family counselor. Many present a split between emotions and actions. In this way we tell ourselves that we are not able to change our feelings but that is [...]

By Dan Blair, a marriage counselor and family counselor. To resolve issues with an “ex” in an unavoidable divorce, present and future co-parents may have to be at the point where they [...]

By Dan Blair, a marriage counselor and family counselor. There are many commands to have or not have particular emotions in the Bible in a given context. Many Christians focus on what they do or [...]